Since the early days of the study of seduction, we have noticed that most males don’t know what they are doing with women, and that those men tend to have a certain cluster of traits, attitudes, beliefs, and behaviors. Those men are called AFCs (Average Frustrated Chumps). AFCs are challenged in either the area of [...]
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Most men dream about having sex with more than one girl, or being dominant. But how many men can really handle that? The majority will have get to realize those fantasies, but even if they do, once done they realize it increases your stress level. If you have the fantasy of playing with two girls, [...]
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During an interview to Unregular Radio in Boston I was asked why do so many people unsuccessful stories and even some horror stories about online dating. These are the reasons I consider the most important. The first one is just plain inexperience. People knowing so little about online dating and then complaining that their results [...]
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Young, skinny, beautiful girls that love yoga and healthy living. That is exactly the profile that my student Alex loves. By the time we first met he was an experienced businessman and had opened several restaurant franchises in the past. Opening and running a restaurant was something he knew well and was consistently profitable. Creating [...]
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Albert was paradoxical. I used to hang out with him a few years back. We were studying social dynamics together and used to go out to the bars and nightclubs to practice. I was soon realizing that approaching girls was not my strong suit and preferred to search for new prospects online and do my [...]
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The idea that, for every action, there is an equal and opposite reaction has been termed reactance in psychology literature. Reactance theory is a social psychological theory that explains human behavior in response to the perceived loss of freedom in an environment. Reactance is postulated to be experienced in response to the environment and used [...]
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George, one of my students lives nearby San Diego. He is a very successful pediatrist, and has a very good income. However, he was not happy with his dating situation. A series of long slow-developing relationships that usually fizzled into apathy, separated by long periods of loneliness. When I visited him a few years back [...]
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Around 2003 I used to participate in some discussion forums and on those I keep in touch with lots of people. One day I found out that one of the girls that I have been talking to online was living near me, around Boston. In this article I will call her Adrian. Adrian is a [...]
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In 2005 I was planning to go to Brazil for a visit around the end of the year. It was still April, so I started preparing for it. I managed to get a famous magazine in Brazil to publish an article about a modeling-related business I set up back home. The article went out in [...]
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Typically when a man is going to a bar or a club looking for a woman, his ultimate goal is sex. He’s looking for a one night stand or the start of a relationship which also means he’s in a hurry. As with anything done in a hurry, this rarely works out well for him. [...]
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